I understand the function of chitchat as an initial pleasantry or as a necessary prelude to some more meaningful interaction. I use it, albeit sparingly. However, I don’t have much tolerance for it beyond the initial pleasantries. I don’t enjoy it nor cared to develop my skills in it. It drains me.
I understand that the first 30 seconds of chitchat are often required in most interactions. Otherwise, people might think we have some kind of social disorder. The problem is that many people are content for the interaction to never progress beyond the level of chitchat. I dislike those types of situations and avoid them if possible. Do you want to go deep for some time? I’m with you. Do you want to talk about nothing for more than about one minute? I’m not. Maybe that’s why I am perceived as a heartless bastard.
Which brings me to Facebook.
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