So I am thinking that to focus on the other requires that we try to focus on the other. Brilliant.
A simple test of whether we are doing that is to go into a situation with the resolve to keep "helping the other" the primary purpose. If you start to feel inconvenienced or miffed because things are not going the way you want them to, you've just bumped into another purpose, unless it is related to helping the other, you keep it secondary.
Okay, let's go try that. Let me know how it goes.
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